Phalak, Chandigarh : Success is not merely how much money you have, it is how well you do with what you have. Every person wants to be successful in his or her lives but not everyone knows the Secret behind it. Whenever I was indulged in conversations regarding career people want to choose, I always got feeble answers. It was difficult for me to understand why people are not aware of their own needs and dreams. Considering this issue in mind, I decided to do a survey regarding what actually success is.
After interacting too many people including students, executives and nonprofessionals, I have to know the psychology of people. Everybody had his or her own concepts related to success. Only successful people (whom I met) had a similar ground, which are the secrets to success. What I want to tell you is that: “secrets are not to be disclosed, but once they are disclosed only wise people can handle them”, so read and act wisely.
According to my survey, there are four kinds of people as employed, self-employed, business class and investors.
The first category of people is employed. These people are intelligent and talented (as I felt while talking to them), but they sell their knowledge and caliber for the sake of money. Whether a teacher or an engineer, all of them have excellent potential and they share it with society.
The second category is self-employed. A self-employed person is self-made and possesses self-confidence. These people have the courage to trust their intuitions and talents and have the ability to look up at the opportunities that are in front of everybody everyday. Its almost like a train station, everybody is in the station, there are trains that stops in front of people but they do not have their eyes open to see and get onto that train.
The third category is of business class. Starting from nothing or least money and expanding up to billions is one most appreciable quality of a successful businessperson. Today 4 out of every 10-billionaire executive in India does not even have a college degree. Only 3% of Indian businessperson is female. Either men or women every successful businessmen has only one mantra : they ask questions to themselves like, what does the world need and what does the world want at this particular point in time? It is how they get a perfect idea at a perfect time. If you want to be successful start asking yourself questions today.
Nick woodman wanted to be an entrepreneur, but he did not have a clue about area of business. Once he went to a trip with his friends. There he felt a need of capturing the moment. Therefore, he decided to resolve this issue by discovering Go pro camera for the first time. That one little thought was the seed of an idea and he became first youngest entrepreneur.
The fourth category is of investors. These people cannot predict future but they are farsighted. They take risks by trusting their sixth sense. Any work you do, any category you choose or any job you join, you have to invest in terms of either money or mind.
In whichever category you fall, you have to respect your talents and use your mind towards enhancing it. You have to be clear. Clarity is what gives you power. Take the time to get clear on what you want and then you will start taking a step towards it. If you are not sure between your wants and wishes then you will allow life to dictate the terms to you. Most of us go through life not knowing what our dream is or what our purpose is because we have never made the time to ask ourselves. If you do not have time for thinking about your own self then you are just a trembling boat.
Being positive is a hope and ray.
Living for the dreams is what I say,
Another thing to be kept in mind is “following your bliss”. People who follow the path of happiness are always satisfied. even if you don’t know yet what your dream is, there is something you can do right now that will accelerate your dream materializing: give your best to whatever you are currently doing. Even if you know, you ultimately want a different job than the one you have, give your full attention to your current job, and give your best to it. By doing this you will actually become bigger than your current job, and in time doors will open to lead you to the perfect fit of your dreams!
( Writer is M.sc student in MCM College, Sector-36, Chandigarh)